we're prayerfully trying to make a decision and this is one of the hardest things i've had to figure out in my life. i don't want to hear negativity about what we decide. people in california tell us to move back and people in utah tell us to stay here. i've heard ALL of the reasons why, i understand what is involved cost wise, school and residency wise and happiness wise with both. this is something we've been considering for the past 5 months, so i don't want anyone's negativity telling us that we CAN'T do it, because people do it every gosh dang day.
p.s. thanks for the comments and support :) i appreciate all of the wonderful friends and family who are willing to support us in whatever we decide.